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Don’t Take Things Personally
By Terrie | April 19, 2008
Don’t Take Things Personally – (approximately) 1 hour Teleseminar – MP3 file and pdf handout – Teleseminar by Dr. Anne Kunath
Although this is one of the Four Agreements (you can purchase that teleseminar separately) Anne realized that this is such a big problem in our culture today that she wanted to spend an entire hour on it.
When people take things personally, they usually think something was done on purpose. Some hurtful things fall into cause and effect. We always look at what we’ve given out and what comes back. We always look at ourselves first. “What did I do to deserve this? Have I said things about people? Have I hurt other people’s feelings?” Grab your MP3 file now to uncover these secrets!
And we need to look in general, not necessarily what we did to that particular person. It’s the giving out that we’re going to receive. One of the things that is misunderstood about cause and effect is that we normally assume we’re going to get back the effect from the same place that gave the cause. That’s not it. We’re going to receive from many other places.
With cause and effect we need to understand that other people’s opinions of what to expect can cause them to take the words we’re saying differently than we intended. And we cannot predict it.
You can say something to someone and see that their reaction is totally opposite of what you expected. You see that there’s either pain, frustration or hurt and you don’t know why.
This is important because in looking at these things, it helps us understand that most people who hurt aren’t really mean. They either just don’t know what else to do or they’re doing something they’ve been trained to do.
An attitude is a law. If you’re shy or outgoing, you’re working with the law of cause and effect.
If you see hostility in others, that’s the expectation. You’re setting that up as a law.
You’ll also discover how to recognize the difference in deliberate hurt and unrecognized hurt in others.
Recognize the difference in the deliberate and the unrecognized. With the deliberate ones, usually people bring up the past. Whether it’s through accusations, you always or you never…
This is just a taste of what you’ll uncover about other people’s words – and how to respond in a way that will make you less sensitive and improve your own attitude about your day. Do NOT let others form your feelings for you.
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